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Saturday, 19 April 2008

How to Ask Your Mum for a Thong

So, you're finally at that time in your life where you have a sudden interest in wearing thongs. This is completely normal girls. So many women, young and old wear thongs these days they have become a norm, like knickers and boyshorts, there just looked at like another type of underwear. However, as you may know, not all people think so, I have heard women saying how young girls should not be wearing thongs, there for adults, strippers wear them, etc. And not surprisingly this will make you feel embarrassed to ask your mum incase she feels the same and tells you off for asking.

But, you know your mum better than anyone else, do you feel she will react this way or do you think she will reason with you. Once you've made up your mind it's then time to ask. But don't worry girls I have provided you a few ideas for asking your mom for a thong without sounding desperate. What I mean is don't just spring it on your mum, you need a reason for wanting to wear a thong whether its because you heard they were comfy, to avoid VPL or perhaps your getting picked on at school for wearing granny panties. Please read my suggestions below carefully but please leave a question if you're are still unsure.

First thing, Why do you want to wear a Thong?
Before you even thing about asking your mum for a thong, you need a reason. You can't just say hey mum I want a thong, she may ask what for. So if she comes back and says why... you already have a reason if this happens. Most girls age 12-16 usually want to wear a thong because they just do, no reason. But to convince someone like your mum this may not be enough. But of course if you're a grown women then there no need to ask your parents.

How to ask your Mum for a Thong
Please take a look at a few ideas I have suggested below and what you can say when you ask your mum for a thong. Some are quite simple but you may need to act up a little. But there is nothing wrong with this, although it many not be completely honest, this can actually be a good reason to wear a thong.

VPL - Visible Panty Lines - Panty lines are simply the seam of your knickers showing through under your trousers or skirts. This is very common with girls and is possible we will all get it with the wrong trousers sooner or later. But with the invention of a thong, its has no panty lines just a triangle at the top. The part that would usually show is concealed in your bum showing no lines across your backside. This makes your bum look so much smoother instead of ungly old pantylines acros your cheeks. So when you ask your mum, just tell her if you can try a thong to get rid of the panty lines in your favourite pants or perhaps your school trousers. It may even be a great idea to wear a pair of trousers when asking that show your panty lines very clearly, you can then show her and she will know what you mean.


Friends are wearing Thongs - Whatever you do, don't just come out and say my friends are wearing thongs so I want to. Some mums don't like there daughters being influanced by others and will just come out and say something like no, you shouldn't wear thongs just because your friends are. And she is right, but you can instead say can I try thongs because my friends do and they swear by them.

There are more Comfortable - But if you haven't warn thongs before how would you know. That's what your mum would likely say. So instead ask her if thongs are comfortable, then quickly move on and say (insert your friends name here) thinks there really comfortable even more comfortable than knickers. She may say no they ain't but you can say how would you know, you don't wear them do you. If she doesn't then she may let you get one to try without wasting your mony. Some mums look at them as just being uncomfortable, and would never dream about wearing them. So they assume there daughter isn't going to find them comfy either.

Girls Make Fun of You - This is an excuse you should use if it has some truth to it, as your mum may find out the truth by your other friends or possibly your school teacher. But most likely she will never know. She may however find this to be a concern, and may suggest sorting out the bullies picking on you. But say no, its OK mum, if I just wore a thong instead then its not an issue with them and they won't even mention it again.

How to start a Thong Discussion with your Mum
What ever you do just don't come out and say it, take it slowly and think through what your going to say. For some mothers you actually can just ask, but others you may not feel the courage and be brave enough to just ask for a thong. Instead, you can influance the conversation that eventaully turns into thong talk with your mum, and the magic words: Mum, can I have a thong. Take a look at my thong discussion starters below.
  • Start talking about needing new undies, from there you can start talking about what styles are available and ask your mum which ones she likes. You can show her a product page of underwear from an online shop selling underwear, but first make sure the undies displaying are cute and respectibe for teenage girls. If she picks out a couple, you can then say I like this one and this one and this one. You can point out a thong along the way and see how she reacts. But make sure she knows its a thong, or it's not worth it.
  • You may want to point out to her and say hey mum I can see your underwear lines, I get it all the time is so embarrassing when people can see. Once again your into a an underwear conversation and from there you can start talking thongs. Say, lots of girls at school wear thongs to get rid of them but im not sure if I could wear them, its it OK if I gave them a try and see if they get rid of my underwear lines.
  • Finally, if your into dance, you take sports such as netball, hockey, or similar, a thong may be required. You can come home and say mum I've been asked to get a thong before the next game. My coach/teacher mentioned that we need to prevent uncomfortable wedgies, but if you take up dance, you can say your teacher doesn't like panty lines showing and would prefer if the girls can wear something like a thong to avoid the VLP. Don't make out your teacher is mean and you must wearone or you can't dance. But if your mum see's your teacher often, then this may not be a good idea when asking for a thong.
A Thong is not for Boys or to be Sexy
If you really do want a thong for this reason, then I would have no respect for you, and I don't provide this information for that type of girl. When the thong sticks out the back of your jeans it's a real concern and it not sexy or clever. Many people, including myself, do not like this one bit and we make every effort to prevent it. It's possible it can happen accidently but for girls doing this on purpose is just nasty, just nasty. It sends out the wrong message and people will have words with you and even tell your off, and rightly so.

Wearing thongs this way is so 2003, and no one does it anymore. But I can tell you this, a sign of a thong showing above your trousers or jeans on purpose is an obvious way of knowing a girl has only starting wearing a thong. I know this by experience as some of my friends done it when they first started to wear thongs, but I can say I have not seen so much as a peek from them in the last few years, but they are older and mature now.

Hide behind a Door when you ask
Do you know, it's so much easier to talk to someone about sensitive subjects such as this one when they or you are stuck behind a closed door. This is the perfect time for you to ask your mum for a thong. Wait until she gets in the bath or maybe she's on the toilet doing you know what, and you can then go ahead and use one of our reasons from above then move on to ask for a thong. You can't have to see the expression on her face and you won't feel confronted.

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